There are a lot of reasons why this is a good idea, but the most compelling one to me is that legalizing gay marriage makes our community, in this case the state of Maryland, a stronger place. We live in a world where not everyone looks like us, acts like us, or thinks like us. Some people respond by trying to ignore those differences at best and by using some legal or religious standing to inhibit them. Not surprisingly, this doesn't work, and like Sisyphus, social conservatives will repeatedly try to push that boulder marked "Traditional Values" up a hill, only to watch it roll back each time.
As I've written before, the people and places that recognize and embrace our differences are the ones that will succeed in the future. In 2004, Seattle's alternative weekly The Stranger dubbed these places, which are often liberal, educated, but most importantly diverse, the "Urban Archipelago." And it's in the archipelago where the economy seems to be doing okay, if not exactly thriving.
These places are valued for their tolerance of each other's differences. A few days ago, the New York Times wrote about affluent, foreign-born parents putting their kids in that city's public schools because they wanted them to be exposed to the world:
“When they go to public school, they’re in a whole new world, a whole world of different people and different values, which is what the world is like,” said Lyn Bollen, who grew up in Birmingham, England, and attended — and taught at — state-run schools. “Shielding them from that is doing them a disservice.”
I don't know if there's an actual correlation between gay marriage and economic prosperity. But we do know what intolerant places look like. Just look at poor Anoka, Minnesota, where Michelle Bachmann began her campaign of folksy, home-spun paranoia and bigotry while on the local school board. Her efforts created such a toxic environment for young people both gay and straight that they're struggling with a rash of suicides. Adam and Steve may be the downfall of the traditional family, but it seems inviting them into your community might produce healthy, well-adjusted kids.
Maryland could be that place, drawing the best and the brightest from across the United States and the world with the promise that no matter who you are, you are welcome here if you have something to contribute.
My mother is a pastor, and she brought me up to believe that God had a plan for each of us. I believe He has a plan for me. It happens to include me sleeping with men, but I get the feeling it's not the most important part. But as long as we focus on who Marylanders go to bed with, we prevent them from giving something greater to our state. In the end, it's not just gays who lose out. We all do.
The most compelling argument for me is that as Americans we should all have equal rights. None of us are free if we deny equal freedom to anyone else.
If Tiger Woods can get remarried and New Gingrich can do all of the terrible things he has done to his ex-wives and still get remained than everyone should be allowed to marry.
The problem with gay marriages is the definition of the word "marriage.
Definitions change- the word gay never referred to homosexuals until the homosexual protests of the 60's in New York.
Why do politicians complain about gay marriages- because the definition of marriage is the union between man and woman.
DOMA is nothing but a reiteration of the definition of a word.
So let's change the definition of the word to mean "...the union of any two people who are in love"
Afterall- if these politicians are in favor of "civil unions" it means that everything is a civil union relation is similar to a marriage( granted some benefits and tax changes might need to be made)but instead of being called a "marriage" it is called a "civil union.
Thuis is anissue that should have been taken care of a long time ago.
My only complaint is that various religious organization should not be forced to perform gay marriages if it violates their tenets. Let a Justice of the Peace perform the ceremony orfind a religious organization that will perform the ceremony.
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